Behave like a Gentleman, be polite and respectful. Remember that we are all better at things we enjoy! Treat your escort with kindness and respect and she will treat you like a king!


Before making first contact with an escort always carefully read her advertisement, it usually describes her personality and contains valuable information like; her preferred contact methods, services offered, hours of operation and so on. Think of it as a form of accelerated courtship… Girl is basically telling you her likes and dislikes before you’ve spoken even one word to her. Use that information to make a good impression!

Always use her preferred contact method. Whether this is phone, text or email, be a gentleman, brief and polite. Introducing yourself, stating a desired booking duration date and time along with any specific service or fetishes you're looking for, and letting her know where you found her ad is usually more than sufficient for first contact. Always be respectful and courteous.

Using graphic descriptions or vulgar and offensive language is entirely inappropriate whilst making booking arrangements and it could result in an escort ignoring you or blacklisting your number.

Don’t turn your first contact into an email, text or phone sex session.

If you’re looking for a specific fantasy or service be aware that in some states escorts are not legally permitted to advertise detailed description of their services so, always confirm with your escort if she will provide the service you desire.
Never ask for service she clearly stated is not available!

Don’t call from blocked/hidden numbers as most escorts will not answer calls from private numbers.

Never attempt to negotiate escorts rates! It speaks ill of you and she will find it rude and offensive.


This is the same as preparing for any other date. You should be freshly showered, shaved, brush your teeth and have fresh breath. Look your best so that she can enjoy you as much as you will enjoy her!

Give yourself plenty of time so you are not late for your date - nobody likes to wait! If you are visiting her and you are a little early don’t be indiscrete and linger around in front of her house/apartment.

Being under influence of drugs or alcohol will likely be a huge turn off for your escort, as well as, have a negative impact on your performance. Many escorts will refuse a booking if you appear intoxicated or under influence of drugs so, just don’t.

If your date is an in-call remember to be discreet and respect her privacy. She will do the same.

If your escort is visiting you make sure your accommodations are neat and you have clean sheets and fresh towels. She should feel secure and relaxed so make sure you don’t have any surprise guests during her visit.

If you plan on offering a drink, do not insist if she refuses and if she accepts make sure it is in a sealed bottle and you open it in front of her.


Get the business out of the way early so you can both focus on pleasure. Common practice is to have the correct amount ready in an unsealed envelope either discreetly handed to her or placed in an obvious location. She will then usually excuse herself for a few moments like a lady, to freshen up or something, allowing her to check everything is in order.

Once business is out of the way there is usually some friendly chit chat to help brake the ice and confirm your desires, and her boundaries. Always remember and respect her boundaries! Be polite and help her relax by showing some sense of humour and charm. This will help you build a connection and positive chemistry for the best part of your meeting thats about to happen.

Escorts are experts in pleasure and if you built a good rapport with her by following the guidelines so far you are already in “heaven”. By now she knows what you like and you know what she does not. Let her work her magic and you’ll have a great time.

Do not get carried away in excitement and overstep her boundaries. Ever!

It’s not uncommon you are having such a great time that you want it to last just a little longer. Sometimes, if your escort has no other previous arrangements she may be able to stay. Don’t ruin the good atmosphere by making her have to ask for her extended booking fee and take care of the payment before the extension - she may be having a good time but it is still a business arrangement.


When you make a good connection with an escort it’s quite common that you will become a “regular”. If this happens your connection gets even better and even greater pleasures await. You can become “somehow special” and she will look forward to seeing you again but, do not get carried away and make of it something that it is not. Only contact her if you want to make a booking.

As much as she enjoys your company it is still only a beautiful business arrangement - not a relationship.